Happy Belated Birthday Kak Nor!

Hey All,

I would like to wish my beloved friend cum sister cum mentor, a very Happy Birthday!I know i'm late to wish u but it doesn't mean that i forget it!

Kak Nor (Besday gurl),Aimi,Zeti and Me!

To Kak Nor;

1-Happy Birthday!
2-May Allah Bless u!
3-Hope all ur dream come true!
4-Emieys Love u!
5-Be strong girl k!


Lastly:- HAPPY!

Nota Kaki Ku : Tgh pening kepala psl majlis besar bulan 3 nti!huhuhuh

Perbezaan Lelaki Dan Perempuan

AKU LELAKI, KAU WANITA
Susah sgt ker nak jadi wanita yg baik??? dan Banyak sgt ker amanah
Tuhan yg perlu lelaki pikul??? jawapannyer, mmg tak susah dan mmg
banyk, Bagaimana??? , bacelah dan pandai2lah cari jawapannyer: -

1 lelaki bujang kena tanggong dosa sendiri apabila sudah baligh
manakala dosa gadis bujang ditanggung oleh bapanya.

2 lelaki berkahwin kena tanggong dosa sendiri, dosa isteri, dosa
anak perempuan yang belum berkahwin dan dosa anak lelaki yang belum
baligh. BERATKAN !

3 Hukum menjelaskan anak lelaki kena bertanggong- jawab keatas ibunya
dan sekiranya dia tidak menjalankan tanggong-jawabnya maka dosa
baginya terutama anak lelaki yang tua, menakala perempuan tidak,
perempuan hanya perlu taat kepada suaminya. Isteri berbuat baik
pahala dapat kepadanya kalau buat tak baik dosanya ditanggong oleh
suaminya.BERATKAN !

4 Suami kena bagi nafkah pada isteri, ini wajib tapi isteri
tidak.Walaupun begitu isteri boleh membantu.Haram bagi suami
bertanya pendapatan isteri lebih-lebih lagi menggunakan pendapatan
isteri tanpa izin ini.

Banyak lagi lelaki lebih-lebih lagi yang bergelar suami perlu
tanggong. Kalau nak dibayangkan beratnya dosa-dosa yang
ditanggongnya seperti gunung dengan semut. Itu sebab nya mengikut
kajian nyawa orang perempuan lebih panjang daripada lelaki. Lelaki
mati cepat kerana tak larat dengan beratnya dosa-dosa yang
ditanggong.

Tetapi orang lelaki ada keistimewaannya yang dianugrah oelh Allah
SWT. Ini orang lelaki kena tahu, kalau tak tahu kena jadi perempuan.
Begitulah kira-kiranya. Wanita

1 - wanita auratnya lebih susah dijaga berbanding lelaki.
2 - wanita perlu meminta izin dari suaminya apabila mahu keluar
rumah tetapi tidak sbaliknya.
3 - wanita saksinya kurang berbanding lelaki.
4 - wanita menerima pusaka kurang dari lelaki.
5 - wanita perlu menghadapi kesusahan mengandung dan melahirkan
anak.
6 - wanita wajib taat kpd suaminya.
7 - talak terletak di tgn suami dan bukan isteri.
8 - wanita kurang dlm beribadat kerana masalah haid dan nifas yg tak
ada pada lelaki.

Pernahkah kita lihat sebaliknya?? Benda yg mahal
harganya akan dijaga dan dibelai serta disimpan di tempat yg
tersorok dan selamat. Sudah pasti intan permata tidak akan dibiar
bersepah sepah bukan? itulah bandingannya dgn seorg wanita.

Wanita perlu taat kpd suami tetapi lelaki wajib taat kepada ibunya 3
kali lebih utama dari bapanya. Bukankah ibu adalah seorang wanita?
Wanita menerima pusaka kurang dari lelaki tetapi harta itu menjadi
milik peribadinya dan tidak perlu diserahkan kepada suaminya,
manakala lelaki menerima pusaka perlu menggunakan hartanya utk
menyara isteri dan anak anak.

Wanita perlu bersusah payah mengandung dan melahirkan anak, tetapi
setiap saat dia didoakan oleh segala haiwan,malaikat dan seluruh
makhluk ALLAH di mukabumi ini, dan matinya jika kerana melahirkan
adalah syahid kecil. Manakala dosanya diampun ALLAH (dosa kecil).

Di akhirat kelak, seorang lelaki akan dipertanggungjawabk an terhadap
4 wanita ini: Isterinya, ibunya, anak perempuannya dan saudara
perempuannya.

Manakala seorang wanita pula, tanggungjawab terhadapnya ditanggung
oleh 4 org lelaki ini: suaminya, ayahnya, anak lelakinya dan saudara
lelakinya.

Seorang wanita boleh memasuki pintu Syurga melalui mana mana pintu
Syurga yg disukainya cukup dgn 4 syarat shj: Sembahyang 5 waktu,
puasa di bulan Ramadhan, taat suaminya dan menjaga kehormatannya.

Seorg lelaki perlu pergi berjihad fisabilillah tetapi wanita jika
taat akan suaminya serta menunaikan tanggungjawabnya kepada ALLAH
akan turut menerima pahala seperti pahala org pergi berperang
fisabilillah tanpa perlu mengangkat senjata.

MasyaALLAH.. . sayangnya
ALLAH pada wanita .... kan

WALLAHUA'LAM..Amin

Nota Kaki Ku : Aku Gembira Jadi Perempuan!ahaks!

Credit to Mr.Veil for this cool and inspiring article!

Seven Facts About Men You Should Know

Seven Facts About Men You Should Know
by Marilyn Graman and Maureen Walsh

Do you want your man to be more like you? Do you get frustrated because he's not? It may seem as if he's doing it on purpose to make your life difficult. Yet in all likelihood, your man is not trying to drive you crazy. He's just being himself-and he is different from you. He craves your curiosity and wants to be understood. It's worth taking some time to get to know him. He'll act more lovingly when he feels heard, acknowledged, and accepted-and your relationship will improve by leaps and bounds. Here’s 7 facts about men to keep in mind:

1. He knows how powerful you are: Your man is well aware of the power you have in his life, even if you don't always realize it yourself. You affect him strongly, and he is responding to you all the time. Naturally, he wants something loving to respond to. When he can't please you, he is crushed. He will probably cover it up really well because he doesn't want you to know how vulnerable he is to you. When he's crushed over and over, he gives up. When you are aware of your power you can afford to be compassionate, and he will respond well to your open heart.

2. He knows he is vulnerable to you and he can't stand it: Your man is very attached to you. In fact, he may be more attached to you than you are to him and this scares him. He's terrified that he can't make you happy and it makes him feel vulnerable. Being vulnerable is very humiliating for your man. Instead of rushing out to save you from enemies, he's trying really hard to please you and failing. What's a man to do? Act macho, of course. The more vulnerable he feels, he more macho he acts. When he says, "I don't care," "It doesn't bother me"...don't believe it. He does care, terribly. He just can't always afford to show it.

3. He is more sensitive than you are: You know how humiliated you feel when you get criticized, especially in public? Multiply that by a hundred and that's how humiliated your man feels. He may not allow you to see his sensitivity because it doesn't fit in with his belief that he needs to be strong. But he is acutely sensitive to your treatment of him. When you criticize him, it means he's failed to be your hero, and this damages his sense of his own manhood. Criticize him in public and you can be sure you will experience the repercussions later. He may laugh along with you, but he will hold it against you for a long time.

4. When he says something twice, it's important: Women have a capacity for dogged persistence when it comes to stating our needs and getting what we want. But men aren't like us when it comes to asking for what they want. If something is really important, he will say it twice. He may not say it again because it's humiliating for him to keep asking. When the subject comes up in six months, he might be upset. You'll say, "If it's that important, why didn't you tell me?" and he'll say, "I did tell you."Oops!

5. When you have something important to say, keep it brief: Since your man is accustomed to relatively brief, succinct communication, it baffles him when you take hours to get your point across. In fact, he probably stops listening after a while because it's overwhelming for him. It's to your benefit to keep important communication as straightforward as possible. He'll be relieved, and will be far more likely to hear you.

6. Your man forgets: Your man doesn't forget things all the time, but he probably forgets quite a bit-especially the things you really wish he'd remember. In reality, he probably remembers more things than you realize. It's just that you tend to notice when he forgets, and you might not notice when he remembers. Because you're only noticing the times he doesn't remember, you might start to think maybe he's forgetting on purpose.

7. He wants you to be happy: Your man wants you to feel good in his presence because he knows his life is easier when you are happy. When you feel good, he feels like a hero. Your happiness is a gift you can give him. All you have to do is allow yourself to be pleased and your man is thrilled. Then he wants to do more to please you because he loves it when you're happy. Being "pleasable" is not necessarily an inherited skill. You might have to work at it a little. That means letting him do what he wants to do to make you happy and accepting his efforts graciously. When you allow him to make you happy, he will do anything for you. See that he is giving it to you with love, no matter what it is. Thank him. It becomes a delightful circle of give and take that benefits you, him and the relationship.



*Cinta seringkali akan lari bila kita mencari, tetapi cinta jua seringkali dibiarkan pergi bila ia menghampiri*-wink-

Happy Belated Birthday Kak Reyna!

*Happy Belated Birthday Kak Reyna!

*Sorry lmbt wish sbb emy mmg tgh kebengongan smggu dua ni..hehehe..sedangkan,birthday abah sendiri pun bleh lupa..apa daa..

*Emy doakan Kak Reyna panjang umur n murah rezeki n hAppY SeLaLu!!!

*sayang akak!

*ingat mee kepong ingat kak reyna..uhuks!

*thanks for everything and thanks for the wonderful friendship!

*utk cerita2 dan gambar2 menarik masa birthday celebration kak reyna smlm sila la ke blog my miss president, blog kakak yg nk kawin bulan ni, dan blog bakal org Kedah...

Birthday girl and me!

Nota Kaki Ku : Thanks kak fiza sbb belanja kek smlm...to kak nor plak=> Selamat Bercuti Kahwin!dgn ucapan hargai lah hari2 terakhir bujang akak..:p hahaha

Happy Belated Birthday Abah!

Haloo...

Pagi td dapat morning call from abah..huhuh..


since aku ni 'anak bertuah'sgt kan, tak psl2 dpt reminder from mak about abah's birthday yesterday!!!huhuhuh..Ya Allah Ya Tuhan ku...sesungguhnya aku mmg tak sengaja lupa birthday abah..mesti kecik hati dia..tp aku btol2 tak ingat..btol la kata nine kepala aku penuh semut!huhuhhu...adeiii...aku dh mereng ni!help me!gilos rasa bersalah!
abah i'm so sorry!bukan sengaja tak mau wish..tp btol2 terlupa!Abah, ampunkan anakmu yg blurrr ni!

Back to the topic;

Below pic is my abah with my nephew,Aiman (sorry,ni je gambar yg ada dlm simpanan kat opis ni) huhuh

About my Abah yg semua patut tahu

- nama abah Abu Bakar tp semua adik beradik n kwn2 dia pggl nama Chik

-anak sulung dr 6 adik beradik dan di gelar Pak Chaq oleh anak2 sedara dia

-ada 4 org anak-3 lelaki(Abg E,Abg Wan n Apy) n 1 org perempuan(aku la tu!)hahah..

-bekas anggota Polis dgn pangkat Sub-Inspector

-muka nmpk garang tp sbnrnya tak garang pun

-suka makan dan belanja anak2 dia makan makanan yg best!

-suka masak dan pandai masak.masakan dia yg paling sedap adalah nasi tomato dan lauk..

-org bleh kenal aku sbg anak abah sbb org ckp muka kami serupa..hihihi

-tak penah tak bagi apa yg aku mintak..jarang sgt permintaan aku ditolak..hahaha..suke!

-berbanding mak, abah mempunyai naluri yg kuat trhadap aku..dia bleh tahu time aku sakit ,time aku takde duit,time aku tak happy selalunya dia dpt detect dulu

-abah suka sgt tgk bola..sggup sakit2 pun gi tgk bola kat Stadium Darulaman tu..faveret team dia of course la team hijau kuning,Kedah..sports lain yg dia suka adalah tenis,badminton dan sepak takraw

-abah suka menyanyi..sama la mcm mak,Abg E,Apy n aku!suara dia bleh tahan sedap..

-Perfume Crazee!lagi byk koleksi perfume abah dr aku..huhuhu

-mata abah kaler biru tau...serius tak tipu..tp yg malang nya takde sorang pun anak dia mata kaler biru..hahaha

-funny,cool,smart n sporting..paling penting tak penah paksa anak2 ikut kehendak dia..

-jgn bagi dia marah sbb klu dia marah aku pun kecut!

-penyayang,baik hati,pelawak,peramah,berani dan my faveret hero forever!

Kat sini, I would like to wish my Abah=> a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!dgn 10 harapan spt dibwh;

1) Emy harap abah panjang umur!

2)Emy harap abah sentiasa Happy dan rasa muda!hihihi

3)Emy harap abah sihat selalu..jgn lupa mkn ubat yg doktor bg tau

4)Emy harap abah tak masuk hospital lg..emy sian kat mak sbb kena jaga mak ngan abg wan sorang2..

5)Emy harap abah sentiasa sayangkan kami adik beradik

6)Emy harap abah sentiasa sayangkan mak selalu dan bahagia selalu dgn isteri abah yg best tu!

7)Emy harap abah jaga kesihatan

8)Emy harap abah murah rezeki

9)Emy harap abah bwk motor elok2..jgn accident n jatuh motor lg!buat emy risau je

10)Lastly,Emy harap Abah maafkan emy sbb lupa birthday abah semalam...huhuh..ampun!

Nota Kaki Ku : Aku perlu rehat..aku dh stress sgt kat opis ni! satu bom dh meletup kat opis td...i'm sorry pada yg kena..aku tak sengaja...

10 Perkara!

Hey!

Buhsan kat opis...
Rasa nk blogging...
Dapat idea nak share about me...
Here u go...!

10 Perkara yg emy suka

1) Emy suka makan..wlupun tak mkn seafood emy ttp suka makan..ramai org ckp rugi tak makan seafood..tp emy tak rasa rugi pun..sbb byk makanan lain yg emy bleh mkn...emy tak kisah..apa2 je mknan yg best emy bedal je..takde pantang2..paling suka mkn ais krim...slurpee kat 7E tu kira minuman faveret...masakan yg pedas2 tu boleh buat emy meleleh ayor lior (org perak kata)..suka makanan yg berkuah..klu makan nasik mesti kuah banjir..hahaha

2)Emy suka benda comel dan unik...tak kisah la apa kebendanya pun..asal benda tu ada ciri comel n unik emy akan suka...klu mampu emy akan beli la..klu tak tgk pun jd...

3)Emy suka menyanyi...suka sgt!kira hobi masa lapang la tu..pernah menanam cita2 nk berduet ngan rakan blog Emy yg kerek ya amat+ kadang2 poyo + yg baru kawin + yg dulu group Pyhne Ballerz + pastu jd Billy Zulkarnain+ and skrg join Ruffedge + yg suara dia sedap sgt...tak kisah lah janji dpt nyanyi sama2 ngan dia wlupun kat karaoke jamban..nk jgk ni!(nine take note please!thanks)

4)Emy suka sgt gi jalan2..kira pegi melancong la tu..tp depends on budget..paling best dpt gi jalan2 ngan kawan2..last year sempat gi jalan byk tmpt gak..this year tak byk tmpt yg dpt pegi sbb kena budget skit utk kawin...teringin nak gi oversea sbnrnya..tp kan paham2 je la...eh,jap penah pegi oversea la...gi Hadtyai ngan Songkhla tu kira oversea la kan..:)

5)Emy suka berada di kampung halaman kat Jitra..rasa tenang dan aman je..dulu kan masa kecik rasa nk lari je duduk kat tmpt lain selain Jitra..mungkin boring sgt kot sbb takde menda kat Jitra waktu tu..hahah...tp bila dh besar ni terhegeh2 plak nk balik kampung memanjang..masa tu mula la timbul alasan rindu kat tilam la,homesick la,rindu masakan mak la,rindu ikan lohan,rindu abg wan,rindu nk tgk tv ada Astro,rindu nk mkn nasi lemak 7kupang la dll..hehehe..mcm2 je alasan ko emy...well,i must said that i'm proud of my hometown Jitra..dah maju wooo!

6)Emy suka window shopping and shopping...suka jln2 kat mall...pasar malam pun emy layan..uptown,downtown,padang besaq,danoq(ni kat siam) pun sy layan...tak yah tmpt yg grand2 cm KLCC ,Pavillion or The Gardens tu pun..asalkan brg dia cantik n berkualiti plus harga murah emy beli je...emy tak cerewet...klu cerewet pun dr segi harga la..hahahah..klu rasa tak worth beli buat pe nk membazir kan?

7)Emy suka muzik..i have to say this 100times!!!I really love music..dulu kan masa skool emy penah cita2 nk jd DJ radio sbb bila jd DJ kita bleh pasang lagu2 yg kita suka..walaupun!hahaha...pastu bleh plak cancel cita2 sbb dh start berangan nk jd sound engineer..well, tak jgk berangan coz mmg bercita2 pun since emy terpaksa masuk kelas pure science masa form 4 kat skool..tp kan nk buat cmna emy kena la mengaku tak pandai blajor subjek fizik n asyik kantoi je time exam..so, dgn rasa rendah dirinya terpaksa pendam je cita2 ni..huhuhu...but, until now sy masih suka muzik..no specific type of music..klu emy rasa bleh layan emy layan je..

8)Emy suka tgk lelaki hensem dan perempuan cantik!hahaha...kelakor kan..actually,i'm planning to write an entry about lelaki hensem dan perempuan cantik dlm blog ni...well,akan ku usahakan klu ada masa...tp kan Emy mmg suka tgk lelaki hensem..suka giler...hahaha*gelak evil jahat*mau dua tiga kali toleh tu..silap2 sepuluh kali toleh kot..hahaha..tp takde feeling pun..sekadar suka2 tgk..anugerah tuhan kan..same goes to perempuan cantik..mmg suka tgk..tp part perempuan emy rasa emy suka tgk mereka2 yg comel..i mean muka mereka yg comel..well, klu badan comel pun ok pe..who cares!kadang2 perempuan saiz comel ni pun cantik gak pe..jgn ingat yg kurus keding tu je yg cantik hocayy!

9)Emy suka pada diri sendiri..i have to say=>suka sgt!!! biasa laa,emy hanya ada seorang je kat dunia ni..takde 2 atau 3...wlupun sedar diri kureng cantik tp at least emy mampu jd diri sendiri dan bukan jd org lain dan paling penting boleh berjaya mcm org cantik jgk..hihihi..senang citer, emy senang dgn apa yg emy ada skrg dan berdoa agar sentiasa bersyukur dgn kesempurnaan yg di beri oleh Allah yg maha esa..Syukran!

10)Emy suka tidur...tidur mmg best..hahaha...selalunya klu sedih ke..susah hati ke emy akan tidur..selalunya emy akan elakkan diri dr pikirkan sesuatu yg serabut kat kepala dgn tidur...sleep is the best medicine!yeah!i'am right..bila tak cukup tidur je emy akan blur satu hari..bila tak cukup tidur emy akan rasa moody n nk marah org je...bila tak cukup tidur mula la sakit kepala ku menyerang..harap korang sedar betapa pentingnya tidur tu utk emy!ahaks!

Till then..

Nota Kaki Ku: nak balik keja dh..en.veil tgh tggu!bubye!